"When I became pregnant, I planned on having an unassisted labor and birth. As I neared my second trimester, I started to feel like I might want another woman to connect with during pregnancy and attend my birth, but the type of support / wanted wasn't (unfortunately) considered conventional prenatal care, so / thought l'd still end up giving birth with just my husband present.

I knew I would need whoever I invited into my space to have the right energy, attitude and understanding of physiologic birth in order for me to relax and focus during such an intimate event. When I met Kate, I knew almost immediately she was exactly who / was searching for.

Kate is so easy to connect with, welcoming and warm, and she is wise and well versed in pregnancy, labor and birth. Most of all, she trusts women, women's bodies, and birth, which means / was able to trust her implicitly. Kate was flexible with meeting up during my pregnancy, always there when I needed her or had questions, and helped me envision what / wanted from my labor and birth experience.

My labor was shockingly fast- 2 hours into my labor Kate arrived and 2.5 hours later my baby emerged! Kate provided exactly the kind of comforting presence / needed during such an intense labor. She offered gentle reassurance when / shared doubt or fear, and made me feel protected without ever being intrusive or distracting. She quietly and efficiently cleaned my space after the birth, brought me nourishing food and drinks, and helped with the placenta and settling me into bed with my new family to rest.

I could not have asked for better support during the most important and sensitive time of my life. Kate made me feel seen and loved throughout my pregnancy, labor, and postpartum time. I am so grateful to have met her and would highly recommend her to any woman and family seeking support during pregnancy, labor or postpartum."

"Kate is wonderful and thoughtful person who has this calming energy that surrounds her. She is kind and courteous and naturally nurturing.

Being a first time parent, I had the usual jitters of going into the deep unknown of becoming a parent. Kate's knowledge of birth and her presence at the birth allowed me to stay calm and enjoy the moment as we welcomed our first child into the world. Being a guy, I can admit I was out of my element during my wife's labor and a little lost. But Kate was able to bring the support and feminine energy that my wife needed as she went along with her labor. As soon as my son was born and it felt time was frozen, Kate discretely took a photo of the three of us (my wife, son, and I) in my wife's arms which we now have framed as it was one of the most special moments of our lives captured forever.

While we stared at our son in awe, Kate cleaned up the birthing area and made my wife fresh hot food. Something I didn't have the capacity to even think about doing in that moment.

When my wife and I reminisce about that night our son was born we always mention| how incredible Kate was throughout the whole journey.

With Kate, you will be taken care of physically and spiritually and you will be left with beautiful memories that you will cherish for the rest of your life. "

“Kate showed up as a birth guardian and friend for me in all the ways that I needed. Throughout my pregnancy, she held space for my emotions and considerations, while also lovingly challenging me to show up for myself like I never had in my previous births. She entered my birth space with full presence, confidence, and admiration. She tended to me through the birth and first hours postpartum in all the subtle yet vital ways that every birthing mother deserves. I would have her along for my journey again in a heartbeat if I ever have another baby.”

“I highly recommend Kate for whatever your needs are in the birth space- she is brilliant, loving & passionate. Her presence is calm yet confident. I felt comfortable around her from the moment we met. It is very clear that she is dedicated to helping women in the birth space and our community. I was working on healing trauma from a previous birth- she gave me the tools to work through them and reminded me that I knew exactly how to birth my baby all along. When those moments of fear crept in, she held the space for me and my partner beautifully. Kate joined me and my family for the birth of my placenta and was a true angel for my initial postpartum. It allowed myself and my family the opportunity to welcome baby in while she took care of the rest in the background. The women's circles and community she has created will forever hold a space in my heart. It is exactly what I and many others needed.” 

“Once we were settled, we called my friend and soverign birthkeeper, Kate Oakley. She came to help birth the placenta, made tea, got us fed, assisted with cleanup, and snapped some really sweet first moment photos. 

Kate’s immense support and mentorship along my pregnancy journey is truly what helped me pave this path for myself. Her commitment to 100% responsibility showed me places I was giving away my power and illuminated the way to reclaim it. Her sometimes hard to swallow honest reflections allowed me to look critically at stories I had been carrying that needed to be unpacked.

The way she stood by my side, holding me with the utmost confidence that I could do this gave me the faith in myself that I needed. I am eternally grateful for the role she played in helping me open the gates to birth on my own terms.”

"Kate was present and supportive to me in a very tender time. She guided me through my at home pregnancy release from across the ocean and I felt very held, even from afar.

Equally informative and intuitive, she encouraged me to trust my body's wisdom. Her knowledge of herbs and plant medicine is extensive and she is well versed in womb care essentials.

She held space for me in a way that allowed me to feel, process and heal in my own way. She has continuously supported me and my womb on my journey.

I am so grateful to have Kate as my medicine woman."

“I feel so lucky to have found Kate and her offerings during my pregnancy. Her gatherings are so intentionally and lovingly put together. I am held, seen and tenderly cared for by her wisdom. Whenever fear creeps in or I am in need of witnessing Kate offers exactly what I need to bring me back to myself. Her gift lies in her vast depth of knowledge and her ability to hold such deep sacred ground. She can keep me accountable, offer accurate reflection and deliver it all with a gentle sweetness that meets me exactly where I am at. Getting to know Kate has been an integral part of my overall health stepping into motherhood and beyond.”

“Working with Kate was an answered prayer. After making the decision to birth at home with a birth worker in my last month of pregnancy and having an estimated birth time right at Christmas I felt so fortunate to have found her and then talking to her and meeting her brought so much relief and calmness to my decision. I felt her presence power and passion so intensely and I feel that gave me my own. She was very compassionate and understanding of my situation which felt really supportive.

Being in Kates presence gave me the feeling of the warmest sweetest hug. I truly felt so nourished and held by her.

Kate arrived maybe 20 mins before my daughter’s emergence. She had never been to my home or met my people. I was beyond impressed by her ability to come into a space she had never been and really get right to it with both calmness and swift action. My family was so impressed that she came in and seemed like she had been a regular visitor too. She brought some amazing lasagna which was so thoughtful. I’m so grateful to have had her there for the immediate postpartum because she really took care of everything. From clean up to making sure I was warm, getting us everything we needed, cord burning, and even the lighting. Giving me all the spaciousness to connect with my babe and reground myself.

Thank you so much for your patience and just everything Kate. You are like no one I’ve even known. I’m so inspired by you in every way.”

“I am beyond grateful for the unwavering support, guidance, and connection that Kate has provided me throughout my journey into motherhood. Her kindness is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced—truly a level of selflessness that stands out.

When I first told Kate I was pregnant, she was so genuinely excited for me and immediately invited me to join a mamas circle with other expecting mothers. That circle became a cornerstone of my journey, offering not just sisterhood, but deep validation of my own intuition as a mother. The conversations around pre and postnatal nutrition, holistic postpartum care, and intuitive mothering gave me the confidence to trust my instincts and take a path of minimal medical intervention—something I may not have had the courage to explore on my own without her gentle encouragement.

When my milk supply struggled to come in due to my compromised immune system, Kate’s support was nothing short of miraculous. She arrived at the hospital with such grace and compassion, and without hesitation, breastfed my 2-day-old twins, who needed extra nourishment. The way she showed up for me in that moment moved me deeply. It was a level of care I never could have imagined, and it brought tears to my eyes.

Kate’s postpartum care was a gift beyond words. Our twins arrived earlier than expected, and with our off-grid home still in the works, Kate opened her doors to us. She prepared a beautiful birth altar with fresh flowers in every room for our arrival, creating a serene and sacred environment. For over two weeks, she welcomed us into her master bedroom, transforming it into a cozy postpartum nest where I felt safe and cared for. Kate anticipated my needs before I even realized them—like a fairy godmother who arrived exactly when I needed her. Every few hours, she brought me nutrient-dense homemade meat stock to aid in my recovery, raspberry leaf tea for my womb, and coconut water elixirs to keep me hydrated. She had this magical way of making all the messy newborn diaper chaos disappear, leaving behind a calm, peaceful environment each time she entered the room.

Kate struck the perfect balance between attentiveness and respect for our family’s privacy. She made sure our bellies were always full, our sheets always clean, and that we were constantly surrounded by warmth and love. She never intruded on our intimate family time, yet she was always there when we needed her. During such a vulnerable time, Kate’s presence was truly a gift. I will forever be grateful for the care, love, and deep connection she brought into our lives.

I’ve never met anyone more destined for this line of work. Kate’s selflessness, compassion, and dedication go far beyond what I could have ever expected. If you are fortunate enough to have her by your side, know that she will exceed all your expectations and more. She is a rare soul, and I will be forever thankful for the support she gave me and my family.”

“Kate has been a true and rare gift on my journey into motherhood. Her presence in the prenatal and postpartum circles has offered me more than I ever expected—a safe haven where I feel truly seen, supported, and understood. She brings a gentle warmth, wisdom, and compassion that create a space of profound trust, allowing us to share not only our stories but also our hearts with one another.

After my baby was born, I faced unexpected challenges with breastfeeding. It was a time of vulnerability and uncertainty, and I often felt like I was losing trust in myself. In those moments, Kate was there with unwavering support and empathy. She encouraged me to listen to my own intuition, to honor the unique rhythm of my relationship with my baby, and to believe in my capacity as a mother. Her words were like a lifeline, guiding me back to myself and helping me build a confidence in my mothering that I carry with me every day.

Every month, I find myself looking forward to her connection circles. They are a sanctuary—a space for sisterhood, healing, and real connection that I can depend on. Kate has created a true village for us, where each of us can come as we are, and through her presence, we are each reminded of our strength and resilience.

Kate is also a pillar in our community for sovereign birth, embodying a dedication to women’s autonomy and empowerment that is deeply inspiring. She holds space for us not only as mothers but as sovereign beings, encouraging each of us to embrace our unique paths with confidence. I am endlessly grateful for Kate’s support, her wisdom, and the peace she brings into my life. She has not only been a grounding, steady presence but also a guiding light, helping me embrace the beauty and challenges of motherhood with grace and courage.”

"Simply put, Kate changes everything. I've worked with Kate intensely for 3 years. She consistently helps me heal and strengthen my spirit, my mind and my body in ways I didn't realize were possible.

Kate listens, learns and guides with an extraordinary combination of integrity, strength, empathy, kindness and humor. She is wise beyond her years and innately knows what is needed even when her client doesn't.

Kate is a voracious student, teacher, healer, growth goddess and giver of life. She is a consummate professional, exceptionally dedicated, solution-focused, and never, ever falters. If you have the chance to work with Kate, grab it. She will change your life, she's definitely changed mine."